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A Guide to Colleges for Students Who Are Parents by Katherine Arnoldi

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(Thanks to Enid Mastrianni!)

 

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ADVICE TO STUDENTS

A Project in Process

The research is not yet finished, but I can tell you so far I have found the big state schools, such as University of Florida at Gainesville, or University of California at Davis, the best because they have received the federal grant to provide subsidized day care (sometimes free for Pell grant recipients or based on a sliding scale). I went to the University of Arkansas and had to fight, fight, fight the whole way, but was grateful that I had the on campus experience. My work study job was drawing bugs for the Entomology Department, still my very favoritest job ever!

About welfare, Taniff assistance: Now most states let you count class time and work study jobs as the workfare requirements. Ask for help locally--at state senators or representatives, city councils, benefits resource centers. Try to ask your questions anonymously so you can gather the information to make the best decision.

Approximate Pell grant---$4,050
approximate SEOG---------$4,000
approximate Work study---$5,000 (varies)
Approximate state grant--$5,000 (varies)

Perkins Loans: $4,000 /Federal Stafford Loans $2,625 (I do not recommend loans if you can avoid them, see below)

Financial aid information: fafsa.ed.gov

 

Information about the Supplemental Education Opportunity Grant. Although a student could be eligible for the maximum award, now about $4,000 per year, the schools often only give several hundred dollars. They are allowed to spread the amount over a large group of students, rather than give the maximum per student. However, I needed the full amount when I was a student back in the 70's at the University of Arkansas, so I asked for the full amount and was told the money was "all gone." However when I returned with a lawyer from the Legal Aid office at the Law School on campus, they miraculously found the money. Sometimes we have to fight.


Now, some small private schools will admit students, then give them huge loans to pay their exorbitant tuition. We single moms do not want that. We do not want poor people to be the ones paying for the expenses of the colleges.
That is why I recommend applying to several schools and comparing the financial aid package.


Our research so far has shown that the main campuses of the land grant state colleges, the University of Florida at Gainesville, the University of Indiana at Bloomington, etc are the best in accomadating single moms. They have non traditional student support centers on campus, they have received the grant to give subsidized day care (based on income and sometimes free for Pell grant students) and they have good on campus student housing if you put in your application at least nine months before (put in the housing application even if you are not sure you are going there). For example: UC Davis takes Section 8 vouchers in the family housing, University of Indiana at Bloomington has a sorority for single moms. Ask, ask, ask, and then demand, demand, demand. Know that Title 9 is a law that says that any service offered one student can not be denied another according to gender, and although that statute has only been applied to sports, it includes all programs. So, fight knowing you are backed by laws and you know that they know it. If not, we have to compassionately bring the institutions up to our level of responsibility. We have to help them to get it right.


So: avoid loans, go for the maximum Pell grant and SEOG grant and state grants and work study and ask, ask, ask and then demand, demand, demand. Be prepared to write letters, make phone calls, get a lawyer from the legal services on campus, contact your state and regional representatives and camp out in housing offices with your children until they honor your rights.

-----Katherine Arnoldi
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